The idea of writing something about sex isn’t exactly new, but these days I thought about it more than ever because of a chat I had with a girl right the other night. 18, model, virgin (yep guys, I know your stereotypes won’t make you believe such a thing, but don’t worry, you’ll certainly find with surprising ease 1000 other models who are living stereotypes… and of the worst kind…), talking about sex she’s curious as hell, but what I literally love is how genuine and somehow naïve her curiosity is. I really adore how comfortable she is talking about such a thing… I mean, generally girls (hehe even if I’m not gay… no, ‘cause it seems such a “gay friend” thing…) seem to be very comfortable with me and they tend to open up with surprising and sometimes quite disarming ease, but in this case specifically we talk about a girl introvert and shy like few others I happened to know so far, so the idea of making her feel that comfortable really makes me happy.
I was talking about what I really adore, and it’s not only how comfortable she seems to be, but especially how genuine and naïve her approach is, and how she seems to mean sex the way I do; I mean, in fact her questions aren’t “technical”, she doesn’t want to know about things you could easily find on the internet, no, she marvelously focuses on something else, how does it feel to be so intimate with another person, share those marvelous moments with him/her and (something that somehow worries her a little) be that vulnerable with someone else – and as I said I simply adore it.
Btw, the point is: I guess I’ll do a post (actually the idea is to do three little posts, but we’ll see…) about sex, ‘cause after all if it is something which has to do with another person, her/his feelings, trying to make her/him feel well and feel her/him the way it would be otherwise impossible to, well, I can’t think of anything “dirty” or even just “inappropriate”, not at all, it’s simply wonderful instead, so I can’t see anything wrong about it. From that same point sex can hurt like nothing else, I know it very well, and I certainly know we’re not in Duckburg after all and “that” (what I wrote above about feeling another person etc) is a way to mean sex, and most of the times it just happens to be something people do with other people who are considered only lifeless objects, lifeless bodies: I know it, and I guess I’ll write about that too.
So if you want to write me some suggestions about the thing they’ll certainly be very welcome: your experiences, curiosities, what you love, what you hate, what you worry about in case, something you’d like to read about it, whatever you want, everything will be welcome. Just try to send a “closed letter” maybe, I mean, something you’d write and put in a bottle you’d throw in the sea (translation, don’t expect an answer): I first of all guess it will make you feel maybe more comfortable and free to write really what you want without any kind of embarrassment, and then… well, I’d feel more comfortable as well I guess… ;)
So that’s that, see you soon with that post (or those posts, we’ll see), and thank you in advance for your help.